There are a few certainties with Alzheimer’s. One of the most important to keep in mind is that no two patients are alike. The best thing you can do to help care for your dad is to understand how it may progress.
Different scenarios will require a different care plan. By knowing what’s possible, your family has a plan in mind for what happens if certain symptoms develop. These are the things you need to consider.
Paranoia and Suspicions Are Common
As Alzheimer’s worsens, you may find your dad becomes suspicious of everyone. He may become convinced that you’re stealing from him. The best way to stop the paranoia and suspicions from getting out of control is by being able to walk away.
If your dad is determined that you stole something, it can be best to leave for the day. Let another family carer or professional caregiver help out for the day and give your dad some distance from you. In a day, he’s unlikely to even remember his suspicions from the prior day.
Some Alzheimer’s Patients Wander
Not every person with Alzheimer’s starts wandering. Some do, some don’t. It’s hard to tell if your dad will be a wanderer until it happens.
If your dad does start wandering, you need to have around-the-clock supervision. Alarms need to be in place so that whoever is with him knows if he’s opening a door or window. The sooner you’re with him, the easier it is to redirect him and keep him from getting lost.
Anger and Agitation May Become Dangerous
Your dad is sweet and calm. He never loses his temper. If you’re lucky, it will stay that way. There are people with Alzheimer’s who do become very angry and even dangerous. You might find your dad’s anger builds to the point that he lashes out and starts punching and kicking. He might start throwing things.
Redirection will work to calm him some days, but they may not be as effective at others. Sometimes, you just need to walk away and let him calm down for a few minutes before you try another approach. With extra carers in the house, it can be easier to step away without taking your eyes off him.
Alzheimer’s care is never easy. It’s a team effort, and you should talk to your family about the benefits of senior care. If you have professional caregivers helping out, you all get to take breaks when needed. It keeps you from burning out and becoming too stressed. Call a senior care agency to make arrangements.